Why do I come across women, who want to keep you, but not love you? Who are not willing to take the responsibility to say a no when a guy proposes? If the guy is not lovable, then how can he be a friend?
What is the meaning of loving as a friend? What is the meaning of loving as a girl friend? What is the meaning of lets just be friends?
Why are narrow understandings and shallow interpretations sullying such golden terms like friendship and love like this? Why do women want to keep a guy, and yet not love him or be committed to him?
Is it because I am like this, I want things in black and white; or is it because I ask for truth from people who cannot furnish it for themselves or me? Am I being over realistic or am I being a simpleton?
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Friendship is a distinctively personal relationship that is grounded in a concern on the part of each friend for the welfare of the other, for the other's sake, and that involves some degree of intimacy. As such, friendship is undoubtedly central to our lives, in part because the special concern we have for our friends must have a place within a broader set of concerns, including moral concerns, and in part because our friends can help shape who we are as persons. Given this centrality, important questions arise concerning the justification of friendship and, in this context, whether it is permissible to “trade up” friendship for love ,as well as concerning the possibility of reconciling the demands of friendship with the demands of morality in cases in which the two seem to conflict.
Its not about commitment which is the real issue.It is for the ages for which you want to take it through..Friendship and Love have a faint line throbbing them.In frienship there is a natural expectation of each other..you want to share even without expecting it back.Love is completely another dimension when you want it back with a forced fervent feeling to satiate wot you did to your partner.Both Frienship and Love are intense emotional bondages where a latter is very sensitive to expectations.
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